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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media
I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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Hey guys. Today is my birthday and I turn 18. While there are girls dying to get older im not. I just wish I could turn back time. Like I still feel like such a kid. And I love it. So growing up is being very difficult for me. I currently feel depressed. Everyone is like oh ur old now or ur a young lady. I don't know. I just wish I was still 16 or 15. I mean I feel like I am. Its so unreal to me. So I guess there's nothing to ask for advice about. I just felt like writing my thoughts. But if you have advice or anything feel free. Thanks a lot. Btw...I really do hate growing up and CHANGE. *sigh*

hey there, =)
I know what you mean,and your definately not alone in feeling like this many people do.
they find it hard to deal with getting older and change.
but honestly the best advice I can give you is to just not let it get you down.
don't spend your life wishing you were 15/16 again your still really young,live it to the full without worrying about being older and growing up you still have the memories of all those times to look back on and so much more to make.
think of all the time youve got ahead.
it just something we all have to bring ourselves to accept and it will get easier once you start to do that.
just try to forget about it and have fun.
nothing ever stays the same and things change all the time sometimes its great,sometimes it sucks but it happens whether we like it or not,just try think how boring would life be if everything remained exactly the same and you stayed the same age forever for example,youd never get older and have new expieriences.
you just need to look at it in a different perspective :)
I hope I helped in someway and that you start feeling better about this
much

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(Rating: 5) Jess,
You are very good at givin advice. You really helped me a lot. So thankyou for your words. You're very good at this haha keep it up. :o) . Thnks again.
-anny
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