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Ive asked this question before and got no responce..
I saw your profile and you seem like a good person to ask it too :)
Hopefully you'll answer, beacuse I really
dont know.. haha.
So Theres this guy I know,
He's really cute.
I would be supprissed if girls didnt go after him.
When I first saw him, I figgered he was one of those cocky
guys (Most cocky guys are good looking.. ive noticed)
And I didnt Pay much attention to him at all.
Then he always looked at me and When I caught him starring he would look away. He would always try and talk to me and tap my shouler and try to make me laugh.
At first I thought he only acted this way beacuse I was paying no attention to him at all and he didnt like that.
But then he asked for my number and texted me right away.
We even began talking on the phone.. alot.
But Ive notcied, When we hang out with everyone else together he always gives the other girls hugs and things I dont know if he's "flirting" or jokeing around, but he told me he likes me, and I asked about those other girls and he said he likes them only as friends..
But how do i know he doesnt say the same thing to them?
Do guys do this to alot of girls or do you think he's telling the truth?
P.s- He one day really wanted to see me, came to my house,
and Held me in his arms while we played video games.. LOL XD
But how do I know he's not just a flirt?
Hey hun, thanks for the question.
He's making an effort with you. A big one. He's trying to talk to you at any chance, get into your personal space, txts, calls, visits... and I have to tell you, that's definitely good.
I know you're probably wary of him right now and that's fine, but try not to assume he's flirting with everyone else - hugging people is probably just how he rolls. If he's told you he likes you, then believe him unless you have evidence - I don't mean go and stalk him to see if he's lying (!) I mean sure, he has to earn your trust, but right now he hasn't done anything for you NOT to trust him.
Don't forget you guys aren't dating so him hugging other people isn't much of an issue you should be worrying about just yet.
Which brings me to my next point:
Have you guys discussed dating? If he's willing to try it with you, then you know he's being serious about liking only you. If I were in your shoes, (if you haven't already) I'd have a chat with him and tell him the things that are a bit worrying. Let HIM reassure you (not random internet people :P)
Here's a little story:
When I met my boyfriend (now fiance), I kinda thought a bit like you. He's good looking and he knows it, so I thought he must have birds flocking to him 24/7. I debated whether to even bother believing him when he said he liked me. but after some time, I realized he was being truthful and any worries I had vanished. Now here we are, together and happy.
Good luck with him girl. I hope things happen the way you want them to. x
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much :D
and btw, Yes we have talked about dateing..
He already treats me like I'm his girlfriend,
but simlar to the other girls,
but maybe I'm being to picky assumeing things to fast. I'll keep my mind open.
:)