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I met this girl through a mutual friend and we have been communicating online and texting (I don't move to her town until this summer). I know she likes me too. Her ex boyfriend assaulted some dude recently and actually got sentenced to 2 years in jail today. Also today, I see that they got back together. How can they be a relationship if he's going to jail? Would this potentially mean that I still have a shot with her? I'm hoping that maybe she is just freaking out about one of her best friends going to jail and said she'd get back together with him, but nothing will happen once she actually realizes that he'll be gone for 2 years.
O-kay... Look, I don't know what's going on with this girl... And if you don't either, it's probably best just to ask.
But, but, but... If she really is back with this dude, for any other reason excluding temporary insanity, me-thinks this may not be the right girlie for you.
My thoughts are this... (By the way, I remember some of your previous questions. I have an upgraded account so I can do that... But don't freak out or anything because you're still 100% anonymous.) Anyway... You mentioned before that this girl (I'm assuming it's the same one) has been in a lot of awful relationships. Are you noticing a pattern here? Because I think I'm noticing a pattern. What I'm getting at is... Dude, she might have some emotional/relationship issues that she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship. Until she does, I don't really think you should... Um... Pursue her.
I think I answered one of your questions before... And I said 'go for it' or something to that affect. I was hoping that she'd come to her senses... Giving her the benefit of the doubt, what have you... But now... I'm just not so sure. I mean, DUDE, he's going to prison.
I could be wrong... But it's a thought. So... Think about it. I'm pretty sure that's not what you wanted to hear... Sorry. But I'm beginning to get a wee-bit concerned.
Best wishes!
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Thanks, yeah this is that same girl. Not exactly what I wanted to hear, but I think you're right. I'm just kind of freaking out because I actually made a move on her when I visited and had success. I still want to be her friend, and I hope she can see that. But you're right, she probably has some issues
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