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Hi, I'm Brittney, I'm a junior in college. don't ever feel hesitant to ask me a question, I will never judge you. Be completely honest and I will give you the best answer I can give, 100% of the time. A fun fact about me- I'm a triplet!advice
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so, there was a sadie hawkins dance at my school. the guy that i planned on asking acted like a jerk right before i was about to ask him (long story) and i just couldn't ask him. so i asked my best guy friend. we've been like brother and sister for a little more than a year. this friend doesn't go to my school. so the dance comes and we go out to dinner, he refuses to let me pay for my own dinner, and everything is going great. when we get to the dance, we're just hanging out and i introduce him to all of my friends. when the first slow dance comes, he grabs me and pulls me reallllly close. we dance and we don't even talk while we're dancing. we just stare at each other and smile. when the song ends, we just stand there. he's holding me and i'm smiling and then one of my friends comes up and taps him on the shoulder. she says "you know the song's over right? you don't have to stand there like that..." and he just says "yeah i know." so the rest of the dance goes that way. after the dance, he says he had a really good time. after that, everything went back to normal. in school, i literally was asked 100 times 'are you going out with him?''you looked so cute together' blah blah. now, i'm thinking about him a lot more and i'm wondering...does he have a thing for me? could we be more than friends? help !
First off I think that is really cute :-) and second of all I agree with advice lady, I think he would like to be more than just friends, judging by your description of how he was acting. Take it slow, start to hang out with him more, see how you guys connect. Dont hang out as the normal friends you are, try to actually feel something, a connection that is a sign of maybe this will work. It helps that you are already comfortable with him because you have been friends for a while, maybe you guys can make a mutual decision to take it to the next level. Let me know how it goes for you, good luck!!!! hope you had a happy holiday :-)
(Rating: 5) thanks! he and i are going to go see a movie tonight =]