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Well...I'm having one of those moments where you don't know whether it's better to follow your heart or what makes sense.
Like you might've guessed already. It's about a guy. Now, he's no normal guy that I've liked; the most special guy I'd say; soul mate, if you will. Even he thought that I was his for some time.
Yeah, we did go out for 3 months, but then after some nasty arguments we broke up with him saying that it's better to just be friends. I still like him, a lot. I mean...I've been through a lot for him and I don't want to give up. It was all out of my own free will too. He's...not exactly the nicest guy from the start. Don't get the wrong idea though, he could also be extremely caring and I'm not being bias.
Now he's liking another girl, probably not as much as he did to me, but he says he doubts he'll like me again, or that we'll be back together.
Could it be possible that he wants to hurt me so much that I wouldn't bear to be with him anymore and we'll both finally be free? Or does he just think that I'm obsessed and annoying?
During this whole thing I've been insisting on my wish to be with him forever, but with him doubting things like that...I'm just not sure anymore. Will it be a fairy tale ending? Or am I just another crazy girl in love?
So what do you guys think? Give up on him completely and go find some other guys? Give in to all his wishes and just wait? Or give it all I've got and think up some plan to win him back?
Stop contacting him, give up and find someone who deserves you.
He said it himself.. he probably won't like you again or think you'll get back together.
He spelt it out for you. Don't be so gullible and think there's a different meaning behind it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! This was what I needed to do. I didn't, and it caused a disaster, but if I had listened to you sooner it might have been different. Thank you! Sorry it took so long to answer you!