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Q: When me and my boyfriend are sitting down, we hold hands. Well i love holding hands with him, its just something he does that weirds me out! he like holds my hand and he puts our hands on his knee and slowly moves our hands towards his crotch! i dont know if he is purposley doing it or not! does anyone know what i am talking about??? or what his intentions are?? oh gosh.

Thank you verrryy much!! :D

p.s. any answers will help
Sometimes guys do that to see how far you're allowing him to go. If you don't signal to him in some way that you're uncomfortable with him doing that, even in a subtle way like putting your hands somewhere else (like on his knee), he might think it's okay with you. He might possibly take that as a sign that you're comfortable with other things too. If he tries anything else, or brings anything up, you can always tell him if you aren't ready to take things further. Always stand up for yourself and only do things you feel comfortable doing.

thank you! helps a lot :D

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