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i'm eighteen years old and i've had two boyfriends - one in eighth grade and one in tenth grade,.but when people ask me, i say i've never had one, because they hardly count.
i've always been really, painfully shy when it comes to dating. i'm not insecure about my looks, i'm actually pretty conceited, it's irritating. i'm more insecure about my personality. i'm like, weird. i'm socially awkward and i play a lot of video games. i don't get along with most people. all my friends and most of the guys i've met like myspace and taking naked pictures of themselves. i like reading and watching cartoons. i know there are other people out there who are more like me, but where?
i don't know how to get over my anxiety. i freeze up and stop talking when a guy i think is cute, or anybody new, for that matter, comes around, because i'm scared i'll open my stupid, weird mouth and they won't like what comes out.
help? :( (link)
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Here are a couple of links that should help you.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2174347_overcome-being-shy-friends.html
http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Shyness
By the way, I know quite a few people who are just like you. I don't think there's anything wrong with your lifestyle, as long as you're enjoying yourself. I think meeting some more people and losing your shyness would help you majorly - you could have a really good time and make good friends, it would be like a great bonus.
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