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Laura/22/England



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My cousin's grandpa just died. :(

I'm really close to my cousin, but I don't really know what to do or say to her cause I've never really had someone close to me die.

I was wondering what I should do?

I don't want to seem like a heartless person and I don't want to say the wrong thing and make her feel bad...

All advice is appreciated.

Thanks

Trust me, the only thing you need to do is tell her you're there for her if she needs it.
Offering support in a time of loss is the nicest thing to do.
If she wants to talk about it, let her. If she wants to cry, let her.
If you're good at comforting, you can try to make her understand that even though he has died, she will still have the memories forever.
P.S, I hope she feels okay about it soon.

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