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Q: Theres a boy i've liked since forever, and well we started to text, but we lost contact of each other becuase i found out i was a hit and quit ( i found out and left before anything happened) and i was shocked that a guy like him can actually break my heart after telling him that i liked him for a while, and im wondering if i was just some one he tells his firends that he got some some action, for he can look good. i really wonder if he liked me back does anyone know how you can find out if someone really liked you? does he still me if he talking to another girl? does anyone have advicce on what to do and how to react around him?
-loverslanecrashedcar
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It seems like he got a wam bam, and you have yet to be thanked, ma'am. Guys like him do not LIKE girls, they just like to use them. You are nothing more to him than a "hit and quit."
If he really likes you, he would make an effort to keep in touch with you, instead of losing contact right after having his way. He is nothing more than a player, and you do not deserve an idiot like him. If he is talking to another girl, it could very well mean that she is the next "one" on his list (of girls to screw). Forget about who else he is talking with. Forget about him. When you see him, act your natural self- do NOT go out of your way to be nice to him. Do not initiate conversations- he does not deserve your time. Just forget about him and move on- he is not worth it AT ALL.
One last thing- when I was 19, I really liked a guy, and found out he had a girlfriend (almost right after he "hit and quit" me). I thought (in my naive mind) that maybe, just MAYBE he liked me too, and would at least want to talk to me. NOPE. This guy you described, like the guy I was with five years ago, is nothing more than a player. I have learned since then that NO guy (or man) is EVER worth your dignity, and has no right to toy around with your body and emotions. All women, at least the ones with a shred of decency, deserve men who will treat them with respect.
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thanks, the hardest part is letting go.
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I am here to give honest advice, when I feel I have something to contribute. I try to be as empathetic and understanding as I can, as I know that the way something is said is as important as the message itself.
I usually advise on love/relationships, friendship and family issues, nutrition, and health (mental and physical). If I feel I can help out, there's not a whole lot I am unwilling to answer. Ask away!
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