about

I'm a mother of 2 boys who are 13 months apart. Talk about a handful. I'm a wife to the best husband I could have ever dreamed of.
I'm one of the very blessed.


I have Bipolar 1 Disorder. I hate taking all these medications and always going to doctors appointments, but life is too short to let mental illness get the better of me.


Often times life is a challenge, and nobody knows that better than me. I wake up wondering if this is going to be a day my illness overpowers my meds, and either sends me flying like a bat out of hell, or leaves me laying on the couch like a wet dish rag.


Thank all that is good in the world that I have an excellent support system at home.
I'm one of the lucky ones.


I'm honest, and that can either be a perk or s flaw. Depends on how you choose to look at it.
I like to see it as a perk, because it's better to hear the truth than to be told candy coated bullshit.






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all of my relatives have had and lived or are living with or died of cancer. iv been to so many funerals an i hate myself cause i can't even cry at them i think its not use. iv ben dealing with it my whole life but i just don't know what to do anymore its crushing me. now my mom thinks i may have cancerous mole but she doesnt wana scare me cause iv been having an extremely hard time lately. i also have a brown bump on my nipple.. iv had it for a very long time but its just getting bigger little by little n its kinda freakin me out. is that cancer to? what do i do, i really don't wana go to the hospital, for many reasons, one being i kinda ben skipping it bc theyve ben doing all these different testings on me but not having to do with cancer. i dont wana go back for one that they go in and look threw me, they did alot of blood and weird rays tests. idk what to even think or do anymore but i dont wana go. :( btw im 14 female

You got to look at it like this: If it is a cancerous mole, the sooner it's discovered and treated, the better. It's not something that will just go away in time. Cancer is something that gets worse. I know you know that.

What they'll do is check out your suspicious mole. They will remove it, then send it in to the lab for testing. That is the only way you will find out if it is cancerous or not.

No person can tell you just by looking at it or hearing your description. Only lab results will answer your question, and if you and your mother are concerned about this mole, those lab results are exactly what you need.

If it ends up being just a pesky old mole, then think of the relief you'll have in knowing.

ygs-30/f

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(Rating: 5) thanks
im goin to a relay for life tomarrow night, itll help me decide to get checked or not
i just think its better to let it be n die from it than go threw everything idk i cant think right now
thank u so much thoo
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