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Q: okay . so i've been with my boyfriend [jayson] about 5 months , and jayson is VERY quiet and kept to himself. but i've recently found out he's "sexual" and has done "sexual" things in the past. and of course all guys at 15 are going to be sexual , but i thought jayson is different , hes always quiet and only likes to be loud and outgoing to me and his friends. so anyways, a couple weeks back he put his hand down my pants and kept going up my shirt and stuff. and no guy has ever done that so i didnt do anything back because i didnt really know how to react. but now my friends say i needed to "return the favor" and hes probobly upset i didnt do anything back. but the thing is, im ready to be sexual . but i dont know how? like what do i do? do i just stick my hand down his pants? what do guys like? exc... i wanna take it to the next level. but i dont know how to. any advice or tips? or what guys like? or what to do?
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This is probably not what you want to hear, but I will write it anyway. If you are having doubts, and do not feel ready quite yet (even if your body tells you otherwise), then you might want to wait a bit and really feel comfortable before taking things further...especially because you are very young. You have got a lot of time ahead of you to think about these things. Now about your friend telling you that you need to "return the favor," I will tell you one thing: you do not NEED to do anything. There is no rule that implies that once a guy does something to a girl, she is obliged to follow through and do something back. Sure, it's the natural thing to do. But if you do not feel totally ready, then it's your mind and heart you should listen to, not your friends. Now, chances are you aren't going to listen to any of this- you did ask for tips, and tips are not what you are going to get from me. All I can tell you is, when you are ready, you just know. Things just fall into place- there really are no rules. And dear, here's a tip for you: you are probably not ready to do anything below the belt. Try not to get too ahead of yourself, and only act when you are completely ready.
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thanks seriously, it IS what i want to hear. you give really good advice. it makes me want to wait till the time is right. :)
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I am here to give honest advice, when I feel I have something to contribute. I try to be as empathetic and understanding as I can, as I know that the way something is said is as important as the message itself.
I usually advise on love/relationships, friendship and family issues, nutrition, and health (mental and physical). If I feel I can help out, there's not a whole lot I am unwilling to answer. Ask away!
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Gender: Female Location: Los Angeles Age: 35 Member Since: December 9, 2006 Answers: 541 Last Update: November 25, 2016 Visitors: 51212
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