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okay . so i've been with my boyfriend [jayson] about 5 months , and jayson is VERY quiet and kept to himself. but i've recently found out he's "sexual" and has done "sexual" things in the past. and of course all guys at 15 are going to be sexual , but i thought jayson is different , hes always quiet and only likes to be loud and outgoing to me and his friends. so anyways, a couple weeks back he put his hand down my pants and kept going up my shirt and stuff. and no guy has ever done that so i didnt do anything back because i didnt really know how to react. but now my friends say i needed to "return the favor" and hes probobly upset i didnt do anything back. but the thing is, im ready to be sexual . but i dont know how? like what do i do? do i just stick my hand down his pants? what do guys like? exc... i wanna take it to the next level. but i dont know how to. any advice or tips? or what guys like? or what to do?
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This is probably not what you want to hear, but I will write it anyway. If you are having doubts, and do not feel ready quite yet (even if your body tells you otherwise), then you might want to wait a bit and really feel comfortable before taking things further...especially because you are very young. You have got a lot of time ahead of you to think about these things. Now about your friend telling you that you need to "return the favor," I will tell you one thing: you do not NEED to do anything. There is no rule that implies that once a guy does something to a girl, she is obliged to follow through and do something back. Sure, it's the natural thing to do. But if you do not feel totally ready, then it's your mind and heart you should listen to, not your friends. Now, chances are you aren't going to listen to any of this- you did ask for tips, and tips are not what you are going to get from me. All I can tell you is, when you are ready, you just know. Things just fall into place- there really are no rules. And dear, here's a tip for you: you are probably not ready to do anything below the belt. Try not to get too ahead of yourself, and only act when you are completely ready.
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everyone likes different things
you guys have been together for a while now so just explain to him you dont know what your doing and if he could help guide you along.
go with the flow and dont be scared to ask questions about what he likes and what to do.
always use protection if it gets to that level
have fun
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