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okay, so i have this friend, i just met her this year. anyway, she doesnt feel good about herself at all and she always things like \"omg, i am soo fat\" and she always says that all the guys like me and dont like her and blah blah blah. i never tease her and i always try to help her but she always disses me and it bothers me. i defend her alot when people tease her but she always goes to my bf ( because their close friends) and she tells him that i am being mean to her. this week was the worse week ever because everytime she saw me and him together holding hands or whatever she would get pissed and she would tell me to stop. i told my bf and he started to see the picture. i havent talked to her for a few days. what should i do????

I would say give her time. Let her do whatever she wants. If you leave her alone for awhile, she might realise that she was wrong. If she keeps it up then tell her "dude, chill out. calm down. you're being way to self concious, no one cares. Stop making such a big deal out of this." It seems to me that she needs to hear that.

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