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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help??

So you're sending naughty pictures of yourself, underaged at that, to a guy who is not your boyfriend, and you don't think you're cheating? You're lying to your boyfriend about who is texting you stuff like "hey sunshine", and you're upset because he doesn't trust you anymore?

Look, I'm sorry about your current living situation. It really sucks. There are other options though. You're sixteen years old, you can get a part-time job. One that doesn't involve exposing yourself, possibly hurting yourself, and possibly getting someone sent to prison for a long long time. Even if you worked like fifteen to twenty hours a week, you could pay your cell phone, and even help out your mom with other things around. And if you're working maybe it'll ease your boyfriend's mind a bit. If you're not willing to do that, then maybe you should just do without a cell phone. You're only sixteen, they're not that imporant, and they're not worth violating yourself to random strangers. So please, stop doing that to yourself. You're too young to start whoring out your body.

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(Rating: 3) no, i wasnt upset he didnt trust me, it just hurt knowing i did what i did. its not like i was lazy - i looked for a job evveryywherre. and freakin finally got a well paying position, thank god. thank you, but hey, you do what you gotta do, ya know? sure it sucks, but it will always get better. and it finally has :)

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