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alright well to start off i'm 14/f.(sorry this might be long, go to the end paragraph if you dont wanna read all ) well i go to my best friend's boyfriends house alot because we always have like a bunch of people there ranging from ages 13 to like 20 and we always have like a party or just chill around or watchc movies and have fires and stuff but theres this one kid there that i really like. but theres a few problems... i talk ALOT. constantly and non stop. i can't help it, i try hard. and he doesn't talk like at all. hes in my grade but not in any of my classes. i'm actually better friends with his 18 year old brother than him. but anyways their always at this kids house too so i see them all the time. and i try to put my talking to good use by trying to talk to the kid i like on like myspace or AIM or something, but i feel like i'm annoying him and stuff.

i honestly dont know where i'm getting at at this point. i guess what i'm asking is how can i stop talking so much, because when i talk, its always stories. and then people stop listening to me sometimes and i hate it so i just want to stop talking but i guesss i do that when i'm nervous.

what things can i do to help myself to chill out and relax when i'm around this kid or anyone so i dont get annoying? i try telling myself to relax and stuff, but i always forget to do it at the right time so that wont help. and also, any tips on getting this guy to talk to ME more? because my friend lieks him too and she likes every guy i like but idkkkk. HELPPPPP PLEASE

i know people like that. (sometimes i;m like that)
well here's my advice. I would say that before you start talking say to yourself exactly what you will tell the person you are talking to. IN other words think before you speeck(sp?). when you do then think of the key points and like summerizing a story anly say whats important. it will be hard but you can do it if you try. good luck :)

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(Rating: 5) thankkss. haha it is hard, i tried before but gave up WAY too easily haha

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