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I am a 29/f that loves to listen and try to help out. I have always been the one people go to for advice. I will tell you how I feel about it. If you don't like my answer, I'm sorry. However, usually what I say is true, people just can't handle the truth.
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Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks.
I cannot tell you how to make it special, because it is really an individual preference on how you want it to be.
I would like to point out a few things. First, I realize that you don't care about losing your virginity, but it is something not to be taken lightly. I was forced into my first sexual experience and wish I could have that moment back. I wanted to lose it my way, on my terms, to someone special. So, please reconsider the thinking on you don't care anymore.
Secondly, if you are going to have a sexual relationship with him, make sure you have birth control options taken care of. i.e.- condoms AND birth control. Unless you are willing to take care of a baby.
Finally, don't do it at your parents house. You will be worried the whole time if they are going to walk in. That will put a damper on things. If you have to wait until something more appropriate comes along, then by all means, do so. You don't want to have the unnecessary stress added to something as big as this.
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