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16/f. Normally I'm not the one asking these types of questions... but here we go.
My dad has a friend with a son who is a little bit older than I am (not sure how much exactly). He goes to a different school. Recently, he started a part-time job working for my dad. I used to hang out with him occasionally but haven't seen him in 8 years.
Today I saw him for the first time in a long time (didn't get a chance to talk), and he seems like a really great person that I would like to get to know. Besides that, my dad likes him. I work for my dad a little bit too, but not too terribly often. In other words, I never get to see this guy ever and because we haven't hung out in a really long time I feel like I don't know him that well, so it's not like I could randomly call him and say, "Hey, wanna hang out?"
I would love to be friends with him, and I don't know if it could be more than that (worth a shot), but the only way to get to see him is if my dad set us up. And how weird that would be.
This summer we might both be working full time up there, but I'm not sure yet. (We work in completely separate parts of my dad's business.) Summer is a long way away, though.
My question is: has anybody else had this problem? What do I do? I don't get nervous around guys or anything, but I'm never even around this guy! (link)
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Y cant u randomly call and ask
just be like hey you i no we havnt seen eachother
in for ever but i figured thats exactly y i should call. mayb throw in a coupld uve changed so much!! and reminesce a little.
might not b a bad ideal
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I was thinking about getting a hair cut. But I have no idea how to get it! Ok I am 13/f and my hair is dark brown and my face shape is ovalish I guess. I have tannish skin if that helps any. My hair goes about to the middle of my back and its thick. Oh I have side bangs and my hair is long layered. Any idea's? Anything would be helpful! I really want a new hair cut. It has always been the same. But I want to keep the bangs I just got them about a few months ago. Thanks a whole lot! (link)
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Before you do anything go
to walmart and buy
a couple hair magazines.
THIER IS A TON
of hair stuff in thier.
and it will give you a wider array
of options. bobs are going out of style
right now and another thing you
could do is get a picture of your hair flowing
down your shoulders. then cut it up
until you see the length you want.
The reason i tell you to go through all this
becuse you have long hair. and your gonna feel
a little remorse when you lose it. So just to avoide that as much as possible. Be a hundred percent positive before you do it. Your young and it will grow back though. I would suggest shoulder length layered.
easy step.
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Okay so me and my boyfriend were haveing sex the other night. It went on for a while. and it started to hurt. like it felt like rug burn down there. And i CANT go to the doctors for it. But i think its like a rash. on the inner lips. how do i fix this? because it hurts alot when i pee. (link)
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I have an ideal.
if you didnt use lubrication
it could be caused bye your
va jay jay (hehe) getting to dry then
it would be like an idian burn
rubbing and rubbing dry skin will
cause this. It should go away in about a week
but abstain until then
or you will increase your irratation
if you did you lube it could be an allergic reaction. Or an allergic reaction to the condom.
For more detailed answers you might
try and go to these sights.
http://www.talksexwithsue.com/index2.html
http://www.gurl.com/
and thier is an explore tag just clik
on sex.
on gurl they have message boards that
could probably help you sweets.
and another thing you could
probably check on
http://www.webmd.com/
if it is caused by you just getting dry
use lube. you can get it anywhere. and
it will take away your problem
good luck love.
*orchid*
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most of my friends are girls ima guy. one of my very good friends probly my best and i became friends not to long ago and it went straight up from there. we were both home sick all this week so far. we talked the whole time i was awake. i helpd her plan her birthday and she always texts me the chainmail sayin i love you or stuff like that how much she cares for me. i care for her alot to i just dont picture us dating were the kind of friends that are super close and very flirty but just not relationship kinda people. shes also having a very hard time with this other guy. after hearing all hes done to her i hate him. but i just dont really know what to do. i dont want to hurt her shes been hurt enough in one week than most people are in a life time. him and her fighting then being friends again have been going on for about a year. her bdays on valintines day what should i do or say to her. id die if she would get more hurt after i kill the guy who hurt her. but i just dont love her romantically i say just friends but we care and flirt with eachother way to much. what do i do?
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hey sug.
it sounds like your already doing the
right thing. She is going threw alot right
now and for her to start a relationship might
be a really bad ideal. Sounds like she
is down pretty far and needs now more then ever
someone to just hold her up. The no strings attached, can snot on your shirts, and
eat ice cream person. Telling her
how you feel right now is gonna result in either a rebound relationship or worse your gonna lose her. So send her flowers a huge teddy bear and some chocolates. And write something sweet and friendly on the card. It can even be dorky.Try to make her smile.Sounds like shes been missing her smile.Be there for her emotionally right now. Cus i bet thats what shes hoping for. If you do she'll probably start noticinng how great you are too. and it will give you time to suit out that elusive heart of yours.
hoped it helpd
sorry if it didnt
*orchid*
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why do guys want to go to 2nd? how does it satisfy them? (link)
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sug.
it gets them horny.
wen guys start getting aroused
it sends all the blood to thier member.
this feels good.
This can be attained in many
ways. Feeling you up. is a big one.
Women have nerve endings
in thier breast and when played with
this gets us aroused. Which in turns
gets your man more aroused. Some scientists speculate that they associate your breasts
with comfort, safety & youth. Its also something they don't have and can't play with. I hear this
ups the intrigue. Men are very curios . If your young and your bf is he probably is even more insistent because he see them everywhere and and has heard talk of it. Its like a right of passage aswell. side note. anything that gets us aroused
and makes us horny will turn them on. Men get huge jollies from being in power and having control. So when they are turning us on and making us "happy" thier getting more happy. This can be said about women. Having your man feel you and watching him squirm may just make you feel a little jubilant. this may be to much to read but i really wanted to be helpful. sorry if i wasnt :(
for any question about sex or anything else
you should try
these to links.
http://www.talksexwithsue.com/index2.html
www.gurl.com - go to the explore tab and clink on a link.
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Which is better, to have an outgoing personality where everybody knows you, which makes you more susceptible to rumors, or to be quiet and kind of standoffish so that no one notices you, and therefore won't talk about you? I know its a weird question, but I was curious. Thanks (link)
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just to be random.
me and my bf discussd this just last night
and i myself
prefer to b quiet.
if someone really cares in my opinion
they will take the steps to get to know you
outgoing people can be really off putting and
invasive by there over eager antics.
no offense to anyone. but i like the mystery of a quiet reserved person. makes
it more rewarding to get to know them.
so what if you dont have a million friends
id rather have a few that count then a million that dont
*orchid*
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my boyfriend and i have chihuahua, if i don't give her food or whatever, and my boyfriend did give her food and whatever, is that mean she will keep coming to him and sleep on him becuase he give her food and treat alot than i do? will she keep coming to him than me? (link)
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My family has dog
and i feed her water her
take her for runs and everything
we still hate eachother
it depends on u and the dog if
your really loving the dog will still
identify you as its primary caregiver
but that does take some time.
it will still try and get you to show it the
attention its used to.
if you neglect it then yes
it will eventually find someone who will
give it some attention
the same philosophy can be applied to people
if you ignore your friends will they still be
your friends.
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would using it on your face daily give you pimples and oily skin? (link)
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depends on your skin type
if you have extremely dry skin then no
it should have detailed instructions on the
back which will give an ideal whatll
do to your face.
or you can google it
lol
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Im 15yrs old female.hes 16 yrs old.
i hav a best guy friend were really close and i wanted to know how can i tell if were just freinds or not.we flirt alot but he says he doesnt want to be in a relationship.he told me last week that he knows so muc about me that it seems like im his girl.but it was over a text so i didnt really know what his emotion was at the time.he asked me onto go to the movies yesterday but my mom said i couldnt go.he never mentioned the word date tho.but weve talked about if we were in a relationship before and he says it might b a good idea.we fight alot but makeup and laugh about it after.i really dont know how this is gonna end or whats gonna happen. (link)
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it sounds like
he is starting to
feel you out. just taking babysteps
to see if the relationships fits
take it slow and enjoy it for what it is
if it works or it doesnt
it might be good for awhile
wait a little longer i would say
until u can hang out alone and
if he doesnt say anything wen or after
you hang out. Then you might hAve to take that jump
either way
good luck hun
and follow ur heart
*orchid*
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im allergic to nair and i put some on my face to remove hair and now i have red patches. what do i do to alleviate this? (yeah i know, coverup with makeup short term) (link)
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covering up with make up
might
actually be a really bad ideal
it could just irrate the skin more
cortizone is used to alliviate rashes
and can be found at any retail store
if ur skin burns try aloe vera
wich is basically the juice from
a plant.It soothes the skin.
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15/f
I hooked up with this guy a few days ago. I haven't seen him since(we've talked) but whenever i look at his pictures or get a text from him, i feel wierd. It's not like butterflies or anything, i actually feel nauseous. not like repulsed or anything, just... sick. and it's wierd, because i kind of like him.
is this at all normal? (link)
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yes thats perfectly normal
to have reservations after the act
it probably means your not absoloutely ready
The most likely reason that
your feeling so bad is becuase your having
represd emtions .
take a moment and just sit in your room
analizing all the feelings you have about it.
not just the feelings about the guy but
the act and everything
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