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how do i know were just friends
Im 15yrs old female.hes 16 yrs old.
i hav a best guy friend were really close and i wanted to know how can i tell if were just freinds or not.we flirt alot but he says he doesnt want to be in a relationship.he told me last week that he knows so muc about me that it seems like im his girl.but it was over a text so i didnt really know what his emotion was at the time.he asked me onto go to the movies yesterday but my mom said i couldnt go.he never mentioned the word date tho.but weve talked about if we were in a relationship before and he says it might b a good idea.we fight alot but makeup and laugh about it after.i really dont know how this is gonna end or whats gonna happen.
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Your friend defiantly takes a little shine to you! He does like you, but like you, he is scared to ruin the friendship, feel rejection, and actually ask you out. He does want to give it a try but with boys they just never know how to put it into words .When he asks you out to the cinema or something ,go out and just see what happens. What ever happens happens. From what you said, it sounds as if you two get along well ! If you 2 went out, I'd take it slowly, and gradually because when things go too fast the friendship gets damaged. If he isnt going to ask you anywhere, you ask him and if he does ask you to the cinema - what is the harm in asking him if its a date? If he says no, it is obvious he is embarassed and bluffing. Go for it girl otherwise you will never no, you already know eachother so the friendship wont change and it wont be awkward ..give it a try!
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it sounds like
he is starting to
feel you out. just taking babysteps
to see if the relationships fits
take it slow and enjoy it for what it is
if it works or it doesnt
it might be good for awhile
wait a little longer i would say
until u can hang out alone and
if he doesnt say anything wen or after
you hang out. Then you might hAve to take that jump
either way
good luck hun
and follow ur heart
*orchid*
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Ask him if he wants to hang out again sometime.
Tell him how you really feel about him. If he knows you really like him, maybe he will be ready for a relationship.
xxtiffany
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