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Q: Okay, so i am in a bit of a situation. There is a guy that i am dating and its been like a month and a half and he is so prude. He hugged me like 5 times and held my hand twice. And i like never make the first move...i dont know why i just dont. And i am torn do i break up with him or do i just keep the relationship going? But he is like a really nice guy and everything, its just i dont know. Help me?!?!?
I agree with the answer below- you really should talk to him about it, or give him some hints that you would like to take things a little further. Maybe a peck on the cheek, or even on the lips- just see how he reacts..even if you don't usually make the first move, it wouldn't hurt to try in this case (guys love it).

Also, the fact that he hasn't tried anything is not a good reason to end the relationship. If you like him and find him to be a nice guy, then it's worth waiting for him to become more comfortable. He might just be unsure of what you are expecting, or might be a bit shy..especially since you guys haven't been dating for long. Try giving him a couple of hints, or even ask him if he wants to start taking things a little further, as in starting to make out. Afterwards, it's up to the two of you to decide how you want things to progress.

thank you.

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