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My husband has severe ADHD and has computer addiction problems. I have problems with depression and anxiety. We've already sought out counseling for ourselves and for our marriage, yet nothing seems to have helped. I always feel that he doesn't care and he always feels that I care too much. He goes to work eight hours a day and comes home and is on the computer every minute he is at home. I don't ask him to do anything when he comes home because I am a housewife and I stay home and take care of the bills, cleaning, etc. I feel that we are just existing around each other. We are both at each other's throats and I feel that our marriage is particularly doomed. Any suggestions?
He's the type that only listens when impending doom is leering. Give him an ultimatum and follow through. It's sorta like a child who is being bad and they don't listen to your words or by you saying "no" sometimes you actually have to stick their nose in the corner.
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thanks! the nose in the corner thing never really gets through either, though. it would either have to be something positive or nothing it all, it seems. (which is why there's a problem)
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