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Stubborn Husband or Special Needs?
My husband has severe ADHD and has computer addiction problems. I have problems with depression and anxiety. We've already sought out counseling for ourselves and for our marriage, yet nothing seems to have helped. I always feel that he doesn't care and he always feels that I care too much. He goes to work eight hours a day and comes home and is on the computer every minute he is at home. I don't ask him to do anything when he comes home because I am a housewife and I stay home and take care of the bills, cleaning, etc. I feel that we are just existing around each other. We are both at each other's throats and I feel that our marriage is particularly doomed. Any suggestions?
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Have you had individual counseling to deal with your own problems? You should do that. They have pills for each of your problems. Its up to you to take them. The problem is clearly not the marriage. Its the personal problems that each of you have.
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He's the type that only listens when impending doom is leering. Give him an ultimatum and follow through. It's sorta like a child who is being bad and they don't listen to your words or by you saying "no" sometimes you actually have to stick their nose in the corner.
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