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I am a 29/f that loves to listen and try to help out. I have always been the one people go to for advice. I will tell you how I feel about it. If you don't like my answer, I'm sorry. However, usually what I say is true, people just can't handle the truth.
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for a very long time nothing boy wise was going my way i would start talking to a boy then as soon as i started liking him something would happen and we would stop talking like that well last weekend i was hanging at my friends cousins house and we really clicked and we kissed so i thought that things were finally working out for me but he hasnt called. i honestly dont know what else to do. i feel like theres something wrong with me but i dont know what to think anymore. any comments/advice>!>
The unfortunate problem with guys at this age, and I am assuming teen age, is they are more concerned with themselves than finding that one true love. Most teen aged boys are more concerned with school, sports, school activities, friends, hanging out, and unfortunately sex. I am not saying all are like this, but a majority are.
It could be that you are attracted to the wrong type of boy, and this makes it more complicated for you. This will also destroy your self-esteem and make you doubt your appeal to turn on the opposite sex.
I would suggest finding someone that you are comfortable with and start as friends. If things take a turn for the worse, your heart wasn't attached and you can feel good that you weren't turned down as a potential love interest. If things start to take a turn for the better, then you know you have found someone that you are friends with first and the connection is already there.
One thing to keep in mind, don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Also, don't let them know that they got the best of you. If you play it off so it looks as if you weren't affected by their actions, chances are they will become more intrigued.
Happy "better times" to you!!
(Rating: 4) thanks alot but ya know iz jus so hard 4 me 2 act like i dont care ya know.!> but ill have to try it.!>