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Q: My question is simply this. Me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for a few months now and every time he seems eager during foreplay to either 'go down on me' or make sure I'm satisfied in whatever way before him. I have no problem with this, I've come to a point where I'm assured with home much I love him and also I've beconme comfortable with him in every respect, so my question is simply, he practically begs every time we're alone together in the house, if he can do it to me before I do it to him. Well, of course he never says no to me pleauring him first but always seems very eager to give oral sex. I was wondering, I know guys say they like it even though they don't enjoy it necessarily because it gives pleasure to the girl. Is this true, or do some of you actually enjoy the experience? Why else would he want to do it so much? XD. This may sound stupid. Sorry. Either way, I told him he could stop anytime and he started a sentence and said something about liking to watch me feel good, but I'm just worried he could be saying it whilst actually wishing it to end or something, just so I don't feel bad. What do you think?!
Thank you!
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I highly doubt that he is only saying that so that he could get it over and done with. It seems that he enjoys going down on you- if not, he wouldn't "practically beg" to do so. Although I'm sure that a lot of guys actually do like the act itself, I think that most of the pleasure they get out of it stems from being able to please a girl.In a sense I think that the both tie in together- both liking the act, and the outcome (aka, girl/woman's orgasm).
Actually, some girls actually like giving oral sex and returning the favor for that very reason. Although some girls don't like the act itself all that much, some do, simply because of the outcome. So I'm sure that in your situation, that's the reason your boyfriend wants to give you oral sex. So all in all, consider yourself a lucky girl! Most guys have no problems going down on a girl, especially if the girl doesn't mind returning the favor.
Oh, I almost forgot to add..I think that he likes to go first because it puts him in the mood and gets him more revved up for when you give him oral sex.
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Thank you for being so detailed, you've been a big help :D
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I am here to give honest advice, when I feel I have something to contribute. I try to be as empathetic and understanding as I can, as I know that the way something is said is as important as the message itself.
I usually advise on love/relationships, friendship and family issues, nutrition, and health (mental and physical). If I feel I can help out, there's not a whole lot I am unwilling to answer. Ask away!
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