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How Much Does He Like IT? Is He Honest??
My question is simply this. Me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for a few months now and every time he seems eager during foreplay to either 'go down on me' or make sure I'm satisfied in whatever way before him. I have no problem with this, I've come to a point where I'm assured with home much I love him and also I've beconme comfortable with him in every respect, so my question is simply, he practically begs every time we're alone together in the house, if he can do it to me before I do it to him. Well, of course he never says no to me pleauring him first but always seems very eager to give oral sex. I was wondering, I know guys say they like it even though they don't enjoy it necessarily because it gives pleasure to the girl. Is this true, or do some of you actually enjoy the experience? Why else would he want to do it so much? XD. This may sound stupid. Sorry. Either way, I told him he could stop anytime and he started a sentence and said something about liking to watch me feel good, but I'm just worried he could be saying it whilst actually wishing it to end or something, just so I don't feel bad. What do you think?!
Thank you!
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i know it says im a boy but thats my brothers email but i am a girl and i feel the same way about my boy friend but yours seems like he means it i don't want to give you advice since im little but not to little so i guess what i would do was ask him to be completetly honest and to tell you the truth ok and dont feel bad if he say he dosent want to do it i know its hard but thats what you gotta do just like... shyt i dont know just ask him (serious conversation) dont let him change the subject but still dont make him angry cause i ve ask my boyfriend the same thing and he has said that he does want to do it and itold him he dosent have to but he says he loves me that much that he just wants to make me happy so i let him so just take my advice and just ask him with no distractions ight gurl well let me know how it goes well like you dont have to if you dont want to so yah
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aww sweetie i think your worring to much about it. I think that what your boyfriend is trying to say is that he like to make you feel good or he likes to be certain that he plesures you.or hey maybe he likes to do the work first so he can just relax after his turn . i dont know guys are crazy some times. just be happy he dosnt make you do all the work.
lots of love,lizzie
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I highly doubt that he is only saying that so that he could get it over and done with. It seems that he enjoys going down on you- if not, he wouldn't "practically beg" to do so. Although I'm sure that a lot of guys actually do like the act itself, I think that most of the pleasure they get out of it stems from being able to please a girl.In a sense I think that the both tie in together- both liking the act, and the outcome (aka, girl/woman's orgasm).
Actually, some girls actually like giving oral sex and returning the favor for that very reason. Although some girls don't like the act itself all that much, some do, simply because of the outcome. So I'm sure that in your situation, that's the reason your boyfriend wants to give you oral sex. So all in all, consider yourself a lucky girl! Most guys have no problems going down on a girl, especially if the girl doesn't mind returning the favor.
Oh, I almost forgot to add..I think that he likes to go first because it puts him in the mood and gets him more revved up for when you give him oral sex.
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i kinda felt the same way. like excuse me.. what is wrong with you... its not that fabulous. but alot of guys (most guys i know atleats) reallly like knowing that they can please a girl. i mean knowing they can do soemthing to you liek that makes them really giddy and then you giving him oral after he is that excited and happy probably makes it even better for him. it feeds their ego. or their sex ego... so dont worry if he likes it.. he likes it.. let you both enjoy it.
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