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how do u let them know
ok well how can i let a boy know that i wanna to mess around w/ him? but not being 2 clingy or give him the idea that im thinking that were going to get in a relationship.?.
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Tell him that you're a slut, that should work.
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The last thing you will ever want to deal with is somebody else's perception of you being promiscuous. When classmates find out through this guy's locker room stories or the grapevine that you "messed around" with him they'll lose respect for you. The same could be said about your family.
If you like him enough to want to mess around and or engage in sexual activity you might as well have a solid relationship first. Friends with benefits deals like this never work. Someone always becomes attached (usually the girl but not always) and gets severely hurt in the process.
Guys are hardwired (I'm a guy so I know) to talk about what they did and with whom in the locker room and with peers. You don't want to be that girl who he may/may not talk about. You don't need a damaged reputation.
You could tell him you're attracted to him and see what he says. There's nothing clingy about finding this out or asking about a possible relationship. I don't recommend it but if you're going to mess around regardless talk to him and set rules and boundaries about what you are comfortable with.
Tell him to be discreet and not talk about it at school. I don't encourage this kind of thing as I feel it's asking for a lot of trouble.
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Why would you want to fool around with someone without wanting things to go further (relationship)?
It'll give you a bad reputation and someone mostly always gets hurt in the end - and it might be you.
Anyway, the answer to your question is; be bold and tell him/be flirty.
Can't give much more advice on the matter, because it's a bit of an awkward situation...
You should know how to let him know, depending on how close you are at the moment. Communication is always the key. Ask him what he thinks about friends with benefits.
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ask him if he ever did friend with benefits then If he says yeah say wanna be friends with benefits and give him little hints that your horny. I'm a reallly outgoing person so I'll just be like I'm horny wanna go around the corner and mess around hope I helped 16/f
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i would not suggest you "fool around" with some guy that you are not going to be in a relationship with; it will cause problems down the road.
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Try asking him how far he wants to go or try seeing if he's attracted to you.
If he seems touchy on the subject, he most likely is shy or doesn't want to.
Communication=the solution.
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