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Hey, my names Ariellll but I go by Rel. I don't look nor act my age & I know more than I should for my age, I lllloveee yo give advice, & think I do a pretty good job, wanna know if I really do, then ask me a question : ) ! First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)
I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.
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I was around 7 when my brother n law started talking to me about sex and little kisses here and there began, the touching started around 10 or 11 and then all the way when i was 12,i told my sister a few years later when i was about 14, she promised she would not hate me and things between us would not change, we were so close even though she is more then 10yrs older, but she lied when i was 18 it finally came out to the whole family, and i was told to deal with it i couldn't stand to be around him, but they said deal with it.so i've tried, at his son's funeral i felt sorry for the bastard, i went to hug him and he held me tight and said do you know how many beautiful women have hugged me tonight god help me i thought i'd die.i;ve tried shrinks and its all still in my head, how do i get my sister to love me again?shes convinced it never happened, and i just want it all to go away, it has been over 15 yrs of hell, any advice much appreciated.
Most people find it easier to get over or forget if they confront the accusser- step brother.
I'm almost positive they have a type of medicine that you get from the shrink that can block the memories, and maybe other shrinks can help you in different ways then your previous shrink did. But I'm not for sure about the medicine.
For a lot of people who are molested or raped at a child it's hard to forget, it's a part of their life and makes them who they are today.
And for your sister, if she hates you or doesn't love you because of this, that is EXTREMELY uncalled for. You chose to confide in her because you trusted her. But, I'm guessing she may be set in her ways..
Hope I Helped & Good Luck !
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