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Q: ok well i masturbate but i only started when i got a bf. i never even had wanted to or was aroused but then i started thinking more sexually and kissing him and we kinda did dry sex a couple times and talk about doing things on like IM ocassionally and so thats when i started doing it and now i do it rather often! sometimes i wish i wasnt like this and that he and i ddint talk sexually. we are good Christians too so what should i do?? we almost went to 2nd Sunday and i dont think thats bad but i wish we didnt talk about things and do dry sex but now im a sexual person with desires so we say things and do things to keep us happy. what should i do??? thanks so much!
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This is nothing at all to be ashamed of. Masturbating is perfectly healthy and part of life, there is nothing wrong with it. If you feel guilty about it because your are religious, I can only tell you one thing: don't worry. Religion and human nature often clash, so being physical with your boyfriend, masturbating,etc....it's all part of being a human being, so don't feel bad about it. Celebrate your sexuality, don't hide from it. As long as you two feel comfortable, there is absolutely nothing wrong with exploring each other (and yourselves).
You mentioned that you say things and do things to keep you two happy- Happy is the key word. You are doing what feels right for the both of you, which is perfectly healthy and desirable. You can still do these things and be a good person, and Christian. Religion tells you to be a good person, right? Well, you're doing nothing wrong here. Enjoy yourself, and be safe! Above all, try not to feel too guilty, you aren't doing anything bad.
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that was great advice!! thank you soo much that really hepled!!!! :]
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I am here to give honest advice, when I feel I have something to contribute. I try to be as empathetic and understanding as I can, as I know that the way something is said is as important as the message itself.
I usually advise on love/relationships, friendship and family issues, nutrition, and health (mental and physical). If I feel I can help out, there's not a whole lot I am unwilling to answer. Ask away!
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Gender: Female Location: Los Angeles Age: 35 Member Since: December 9, 2006 Answers: 541 Last Update: November 25, 2016 Visitors: 51174
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