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Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and I honestly do love him. It's the most serious relationship I've ever been in. We live together and everything.
Lately, though, I've kind of been having second thoughts about this whole thing. We've been fighting quite a bit (but we've always fought), and I just miss dating other people. I know it sounds mean, but I can't help it. Sometimes I think I want to be with him, and sometimes I think I don't.
Don't think it's just me being mean and everything, because he's messed up a lot, too. He's lied to me, and some girl told me she slept with him (She's known for being a liar, and he denies it, but I just don't know). The thing he lied to me about, though, was him saying he wasn't with the girl when he was, and stuff like that.
I just need some help, please. Sometimes I just feel like I'm way too deep into this relationship to leave him even if I wanted to. (link)
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You are never too deep. People get divorced all the time. If it isn't too late for them, it isn't too late for you.
The sad truth is that most people grow apart. Sometimes it takes weeks, sometimes it takes years. I wouldn't advise using the time you spent together as a reason for staying together. Everyone's afraid of change, but everyone has to face it sooner or later. Sometimes you just have to do it to be happier.
If you think you'd be happier with someone else, I would leave. If it's bothering you this much, then I would at least advise a break. At least spend time away from each other for awhile. It really all depends on how you feel and what you want more.
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