I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Age: 21
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16f.
im not bi or anything but i know a girl who is and like evry time i talk to her she likes a new person... he even likes 4 ppl at once and i dont get how she can... i stuck up for her when ppl were calling her a slut and saying shit about her but now im begging to think she is a slut like cos she goes out with one person and likes another and she will break up with a them and have another boy/girl friend the next week... is she a slut? im not bi i no im not... but i keep thinking about her like since i saw her last but im not sure why...?
do i like her cos i that she would probably break my heart if i did anything about this... i dont think i like her cos im not bi and i never have been. so i dnt get what is going on...?! (link)
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You're 16 so this is about the time in your life where hormones are really starting to kick in and it is the general time where people do start to question their seuxality. Not necessarily because they are homosexual or bisexual, but because it is natural to explore your sexuality to a degree and experiment with your options. As this is possibly the first person with homosexual tendencies that you have met, it makes sense that you are intrigued. It doesn't mean you're gay; just that you are curious.
This girl's behaviour implies a lack of self esteem, above everything else. It sounds as though she is seeking validation from other people by dating around. It might also be that perhaps she is not yet settled in her sexuality and is testing all the waters available. Plunging deeper still, it could be a form of rebellion againsst her childhood. The point is, you won't know her reasons without talking to her. So why not try that? It could well be that with everyone calling her names, she has nobody to talk to and with the amount of general problems 16 year olds have, it's important to always have a friend. So spend a little time with her. Talk. Let her know you are there if she wants to talk. You don't have to date her but there's no reason you can't be friends. She'll get a lot from it and I expect you will as well.
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hey thanx!!! uv made everything much clearer for me.. *much appriciated* xxx
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