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I need alllllllllllll you chicks out there to help me out. Boys too. I'm trying to write a book, Smooth Boys, Smoother Girls. About WHY boys are sooo smooth and why they have power over girls. Please girls, boys help me out over here!
Why are boys so smooth?
Well, actually... I sort of think it's really us girls who have the power over the guys! It might SEEM like the guys have the power, because they're the ones that usually make the first move, while us girls have to sit and wait for them to ask us out or whatever. So it seems like it's the guys who get to choose the girls. But really, the power lies with the girls... because we get to choose whether to accept the offer or not.
It's like in the animal kingdom. Have you ever watched a bunch of male birds get all puffed up and strut around, trying to impress a female? And she just sits there all cool, kinda ignoring them, until she decides whether she wants one of 'em or not. And that's how guys are, too. All their strutting around, showing off and acting like doofs is just to impress us girls, in hopes that one of us will take the bait! But we have the upper hand, because we're the ones who get to say "yes" or "no."
Of course, some guys are better at it than others. These are the smooth ones... the ones who have a lot of confidence and know how to play the game, know what really impresses us. They're the ones who get "accepted" more often. But still... even when the smooth ones ask a girl out, there's always the chance that she'll turn him down. Since girls get to make the choice of saying yes or no, it's ultimately us who have the power!
(Rating: 5) hahahaha i think ur my hero