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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months i'm 16 he's 17 and we've done everything....but lately he's been acting weird....sometimes when we hang out he is amazing but last night we were with my best friend and her boyfriend watching a movie and he was being sooooo weird most of the time he was high and i know that but idk if that really changes anything...he has cheated on me 2 time possible three...the last time he doesn't know if he did or not cause he was drunk...blacked out drunk....but last night i went to look at his phone and he had deleated his call log..and he recently changed his password so i can't get on his myspace...can anyone give me any insight on what is happening in this relationship? and can anyone give me any advice on what to do with those sercumstances?

ohhhh p.s. yesterday is the last time he could smoke weed cause his parents caught him saturday when he came home high..

This is so not okay. Are you going to just take this and let this slide?! Hell no! First of all, I understand completely why you would want to check on his myspace or phone, but that is not the way to go.

It was probably frustrating when you realized he changed his password and deleted his call log, but clearly having a heart to heart is what you two need. It seems apparent that your boyfriend is doing something behind your back, because he has been getting high, or for another reason in addition to that, but you definitely don't deserve this. You need to tell him straight out that you don't want your relationship to just go down the drain, and you really want to know what is going on. But don't have this conversation when he is high, or else it could lead to more trouble, as you have already observed the dangers of your boyfriend on drugs.

If you need anything else, let me know. I hope everything works out for you guys! (:

♥, lena

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(Rating: 5) what do i say to him in a heart to heart about this though?

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