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I am a 29/f that loves to listen and try to help out. I have always been the one people go to for advice.

I will tell you how I feel about it. If you don't like my answer, I'm sorry. However, usually what I say is true, people just can't handle the truth.

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this story is kinda complicated, but i dont know what to do.
the guy that i like, who is one of my best frenz, said that he has an issue wit alot of my close girl frenz, and that they get on his nerves.
bt i neva had a clue, until he told me to my face. i was rilli upset, and the thing is...
i think he likes me....
and i like him too....
but i dont want there to be an issue between him and my friends if we go out...

i love my girl frenz nd him too. i mean they are my best frenz.
ugh...wat do i do??????

This is a tough situation. You have to ask yourself a few questions, before you can make a decision about dating this guy.
#1- If you two do hit it off, and become a couple, would he want you to give up your friends for him? If he does, is that someone you want to be in your life?
#2- Would you be terribly upset if you lost your friends for a guy?

Guys come and go, we will either connect well with them or we don't. It's up to us to choose someone that compliments us as a whole. If he likes you, he has to like everything about you, friends included. If he can't handle it, then he may not be the right guy for you.

However, if your feelings are really strong for this guy, then maybe you can talk to him and make a compromise. Tell him that you enjoy being with him, but you also like to hang out with your friends. Let him know, that you have to have your friends as well. Maybe, you two can work on having a relationship, and seperate friendships as well.

In any case, go with your heart, and do what is right for you. You know better than anyone about how you feel. Good Luck!!
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You are most welcome, thanks for the 5, I appreciate that. Just remember you deserve both a guy and your friends, at the same time. ;) Good Luck!! If you ever need any more advice, I'm here. Just message me!!!

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(Rating: 5) wow
thank you so much
that was the best advice i have heard yet
i am really going to think about what i decide to do
thank you so much
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