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well my boyfriend and i r really close and just recently started dating even tho we have liked each other for a while. before we were best friends and still r and share everything with each other.
andyway so i am probably moving this summer and its really hard for the both of us and he doesnt want me to move at all. he hates the idea. im 14 and hes 15 almost 16. the thing is we arent sure if we should have a long distance relationship. honestly i dont think either of us want to but we both dont want to leave each other either. it is extremely difficult for him to except this because we both care for each other so much and love each other like best friends. we are best friends.
so my ? is i want to know what you think about long distance relationships and if they work out well or not. i would only be able to visit like twice a yr too. i dont think its going to work tho but the thought of leaving him and losing him breaks myheart. the thing is i wouldnt be able to see him in person and hug him and hold hands and kiss him and stuff. we go to different schools and already hate having to go weekend to weekend cause i just switched schools a couple months ago and we used to have classes together and see each other everyday.
and he will be able to drive by the time i move and said he might be allowed to go down and see me but i just dont things would work out well. plus if im moving its a new start-on everything. he says not to worry about it yet but i do.and i know we thinks about it too. we are in a serious relationship and this is the first time either of us have been in a serious relationship. i love having him as my first serious bf and its wrking out really well but i just dont know and or think its going to work well. it sounds like it would be too hard and i dont want us to decide on a long distance relationship and then get frusterated when it doesnt work out and quit and just have everything left like that. and no matter what we will be best friends-even if it's just in my heart and memories. thanks again :]. (link)
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Well, if you want my opinion, I'm going to be straight-forward about it: No. Long distance relationships are VERY difficult, and very few last through them. It isn't impossible, but it's definitely not easy. I've been there, and I bet I cried about everyday, it was terrible for me, and it's that way for a lot of people. So I do not recommend this, plus, you'll be moving and meet new guys. Then, you'll still be with this guy you're with now, visa-versa.
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