19/f
Ok I've hung out with my older brother's friends for awhile now (he is 25 and his friends range from 21 - 28 i think). Well, I've liked one of them for a couple years now, and they had a new years eve party last night. I ended up staying there, and me and this guy that I've liked slept on the couch together (nothing happened though, just cuddling). After we all left, he sent me a message on facebook and said he had a good time chillin with me and gave me his number. So I gave him mine, and we're texting now. He wants to take me to a movie sometime, and I'm really excited. But the problems are 1) he's 24 and 2) my brother doesn't really like him anymore (some girl issue they had like a year ago). I really want to see where things go with this guy, but my brother would kill me if he knew. He's already told me I shouldn't go out with him and all. Plus, my mom doens't think it's a good idea, cause it might mess up my relationship with my brother. I'm really stuck on this. I really like this guy, but at the same time, I don't want to ruin my relationship with my brother. :/ Help??
its really ironic. my bff is going through this exact same situation!!
i told her to talk to her brother. that way, he doesnt think she is keeping secrets from him. try talking to him asap. maybe even tonight if you can. also see if you can get your mom to be with you whenever you talk to him. its like a two against one kinda situation.
you are 19, and you can make your own decisions. although your brother might be mad, he cant stop you from doing anything. he and his friend need to get over all the drama. they are 25 and 24 and they need to get over it. hope my advice helps! ♥ jenny
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haha u get a huge 5 for being my best friend and knowing that this was my question! less than three.
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