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me and my girlfriends went to a waterpark for me and my best friend's combined birthday party, and we met a group of guys there. the guys go to the highschool in the town next to us. me and one guy got especially close, we exchanged numbers and even kissed eachother on the cheek. we've called eachother a couple of times since we parted, and talked on facebook, but we havn't seen eachother.
i casually mentioned to my parents that we met a group of guys that we might hang out with again, and i even told my mom that my friends all think i should date one guy in particular. i didn't tell them that we kissed.
the problem is, ill be getting my licence soon, (he already has his,) but i know my parents aren't going to let me drive over to his town (especially alone, as a new driver, in a strange town). or with anybody for that matter! i could lie and go over there when i said i went somwhere else, or i could invite him over to my house, but his parents might say the same thing to him. how are we ever going to see eachother again? how can i ask my parents to let me drive over there, when i know they'll say no? (if i ask them and they say no, they'll be suspicious always that im going over there, im afraid) if we could possibly start dating, should I even tell my parents? what should i do? HELP!
Try inviting him over to your house first. Parents are usually more lenient with sons (as far as letting them drive over to a girl's house), so it might not be a problem for him at all. Just ask your parents if you can have a few people over -- a couple of your friends, and this guy and his friends. Once they have a chance to meet him, they'll probbaly be more comfortable with the whole thing. Then the next step could be having him meet you somewhere in your town (movies or whatever) with some of your friends. When your parents have a chance to see that he's a nice guy, they may eventually let you go out to his place.
Good luck!
(Rating: 5) Thanks, thats a good idea. If his parents would let him over here, and my parents could meet him, I think my problem would be totally solved. THANKS! Your advice is helpful!