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Q: me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8,

First off, GO get tested RIGHT AWAY...you could be pregnant. Others have said the same thing, and I'll repeat it again. You are very, very young..too young to be doing these things. Obviously dear, sorry to say this, you aren't mature enough to deal with these situations. Why do you get yourself in them in the first place? Well, now that all is said and done, just go to a clinic or wherever, and get a pregnancy test. Go in a couple days or so, and you'll get accurate results. Better yet, please, for YOUR sake, go talk to a school nurse. They will not judge you at all. They will give you guidance and let you know what you should do next (and maybe give you a pregnancy test). I don't know how old your boyfriend is, or who he has been with, but regardless, get tested for other things (STD's, if you know what those are) as well.
Your boyfriend sounds young too,(otherwise, why would he be with a 13 year old), so he probably doesn't know how to deal either. I am not so naive as to think you are not going to have sex. Next time, use a condom! Never, ever have sex without one. Also, rethink what you are doing. You are so young, you can wait off doing these things for a while, believe me. If you do not want to listen to me, or anyone else, at the very least, go talk to your school nurse for one thing, and always, always use protection.

Rating: 5

Thanks, but we ahd sex before that to. We been together since I was 11. But still I love him to death and he loves me. And he is 2 years older than me {soon to be 3 because his birthday is in march} but Thanks for the advice!

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