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uhm well i kinda know this guy and were kinda into eachother and im not gonna lie about it, im not the smartest person. and i get called stupid alot. and im giving up like i died my hair so its not as blonde because people would always be like your such a blonde bimbo and they would always call me a dumbblonde so i died my hair darker. so back to this one guy i was talking with him on the phone like we do every night and he always joked how he has to explain everything to me cause i didnt get it. i would get a little offended but he was always like its so cute. so i just forgot about it. so tongiht we were talking and he said something and it didnt hear it so i said what i thought he said and hes like oh my god im really getting sick of this i have to explain every fucking thing to you. and im like im sorry i can understand why your annoyed like i know im trying so hard to be smart around you but its not like working. and hes like ya im fucking sick of this i cant even talk to you your so goddamned stupid. and he hung up. i called him back to explain that that i was just like shocked he would say something out of all people. so he picked up and hung up. so i imed him i dont think he was there but it was like im sorry im not smart enough blah blah. i just i dont know what to do. i really like him. idk if i should leave it alone talk to him apologize again what? so any advice will be appreciated thanks. =)

Apologize?? For not being able to hear him?? He treated you like crap & was being a jerk. If anything, he should apologize to you. Do not let anyone push you around like that. You shouldn't have to change your hair color or the way you look for other people. That's ridiculous & if they are your true friends they wouldn't do that to you. Why waste your time on a guy who's going to treat you that way?? Explain to him your feelings about the situation & move on. He's not worth your time if he's going to be that way. It's very rude. You should fix your priorities first. Stand up for yourself. I'm sure you're a smart girl who just has moments sometimes. Everyone does & it isn't a big deal. You're probably very pretty, otherwise they wouldn't be making fun of something so stupid. They probably can't find anything wrong with you, so they decide to call you a bimbo instead. Keep your head up & only allow positive influences in your life, not negative ones. You can prove them wrong, but you definitely don't have to. Be yourself & if they can't accept it, it's their problem.

-hope that helped!♥

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(Rating: 5) wow your really good at giving advice. thanks.

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