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Q: I betrayed my best friend in the world, Cali..:[

So I'm friends with this girl, Holly. Holly really liked this kid named Jared...I was supposed to try and hook them up. In the process of convincing Jared to go out with Holly, I found out that my best friend Cali liked Jared..A lot. But I didn't pay attention to that fact..So Jared and Holly are going out, and Cali wanted to know if I knew she liked him before I hooked him up with Holly. I lied and said I had no idea. I feel like an idiot for betraying my best friend, but I don't know what to do...I know that what she doesn't know won't hurt her, but still...What do I do?
Honestly don't think there's anything you can do... I mean, it's not like you're gonna break Holly and Jared up, then try to hook him up with cali, right? of course not. I don't think this should be stressing you out so much. i can't say it doesn't suck, but if you feel that bad about it, just tell cali the truth. Say, "I guess I might've heard SOMETHING about it, but Holly was counting on me to do her this favor so I just brushed it off without knowing that you really DID like him, much less that you liked him THAT much." Tell her you didn't want to get her so angry or hurt, but that you figured you had to tell her. i doubt you best friend in the whole world can get too mad at you for this. It's the best i can come up with, anyway. Let me know how this all works out=]

Thankss so much!!! :] But in the end, it worked out great b/c I hooked up Cali with another guy. But thanks so much. :)

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Hi, I'm Marisol :) I'm 24 years old. I try to look at all different sides of a situation before forming an opinion. I may not always know what to say, but I always have something TO say. So as far as giving advice goes, I just give my best input and hope I can help. Let me know how I do with some feedback. :)

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