beckyboo's advice column

my name's rebecca. i doubt you're even mildly interested in the irrelevant aspects of my life, so i'll get to the point. i'm not a professional psychologist nor do i pretend to be, yet i'll try to give you advice based on the common sense that, unlike many others on here, i own ;]

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13/f

I've been dating this guy for sometime now. It was an internet relationship, but i didnt care. He was sweet and made me feel so much better about myself in so many ways. We used to say to tell each other that we loved each other everytime we talked. But recently i he wasnt on for a while. I kept on loving him. There was a place to put if you had a special person, so I put his picture on there saying that i always will love him. When he got back on he said he didnt love me anymore. I was crushed and we've been talking about it. Now he is saying that he isnt the same type of guy and that i should judt forget about him, and he doesnt get why i still love him. the question is, why all of the sudden does he not love me? Is it because the natural male instince to run when a woman says she loves a guy?

Well, since you're 13, neither of you probably really "love" eachother. Maybe he did get scared that you were so serious.

Or, maybe he's really some 50 year old man who used you for some entertainment, got bored, moved onto the next unsuspecting girl, and wants to remove all evidence of your relationship before the police arrest him.

It's strange to be so adament about you forgetting him. It's like he's trying to hurt your feelings just so you'll move on with your life.

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(Rating: 4) u've got a good point but it doesnt change how i feel. Plus ive been in love before because its a feeling that is very special. I've only been in love twice. One with my ex-bf who im not quite over and the other is now.

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