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I read this really good piece of advice on someone else's question.

Part of it is: "The truth is, it's not the pretty girls that get the guys, but the girls that are the most approachable."

Can anyone expand on that or give examples? Thanks in advance!

Have you ever heard the term Ice Queen? It's usually referred to a really pretty girl who's either really mean, or just really quiet and considered unapproachable.

What they're saying is that sometimes guys (well, non-shallow guys) look for girls who are more outgoing and easy to talk to, rather then a girl who's goegeous but doesn't have a very nice personality, or a really shy girl. (Don't get me wrong, it's perfectly okay to be shy, but some guys may think you're unapproachable)

Most guys prefer a girl with a good personality who's smart over a girl who's looks are suited for the cover of Vogue...unless they're just jerks, and there are plenty of those in the world.


::Jasmine::

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