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I am writing a movie script, which should be in production next year, and I need advice for a few of my teenage characters. It's been a few years since I have been a girl in high school and, although things were hard back then, I can only imagine the abundance of peer pressure you guys face these days. I want these characters to portray real life feelings. Say real life words that teenagers say. And react the way kids react in certain situations. By using your own or someone else's experiences I would appreciate advice on how girls and boys would act or respond if faced with situations such as:

GIRLS:
A girl and her boyfriend had sex for the first time then he breaks up with her a few days later. What would she feel or do? Would she consider doing something desperate? Is it no big deal? What reason would the boy give for breaking up with her?

Would a girl ever lie to her friends about being sexually active when really she's a virgin? If so, why is being a virgin so terrible to admit?

If a sexually active girl had an opportunity to go back in time and say no to sex, would she? Why, what would she have realized?

BOYS:
Do guys have any regrets about sleeping with a girl? What are they? Be honest.

What are some good lines a guy would say to have a girl say yes to sex?

And I really hope someone out there can advise me on this one...Are there guys who choose to refrain from having sex until they get married? Not because they can't get a girl, but simply because they choose to save themselves for their wife?

Thanks in advance.

1) Girls I know tend to feel more emotionally attached to guys they sleep with, and it's way harder for them to move on and let go, especially if they lost their virginity to said guy. So she might feel something like depression, betrayal, self-pity, angst...it's different for different girls. It depends on how attached the girl really is to the guy that broke up with her.

2) I know I tell my friends everything, if I was no longer a virgin then they would be the first to know. A girls friends...closest friends know a lot about her.

3) It depends on the situation, some girls lose their virginity to guys they loved and wouldn't take it back for the world. Some girls lose their virginty to guys they thought they wanted to be their first, but they didn't love. Those girls usually end up regretting it when the find someone they truly love.

I hope this helped.

::Jasmine::

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