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Hi, umm Im the girl you answered a question about me having a lot of guys friends and how one of them stuck up for me whne Nick called me butch.. well hasn't even been a week and people are driving me batty.
ahh Stevens still in ISS... and so's Nick.
Well yesturday.. we had cooking and I got stuck wiht becky.. thank good DJ,JJ, and Nathen. Well im friends with Nathen.. and JJ was making jokes about how its a womens job to cook and all this sexist crap.. well then Cole joined and Nathen already hated this kid so they got in a talking arguement and as Nathen walked away he like said to me under his breath..
"Err I wished he'd die.. of cancer."
Well I tweaked on him because ive senn what cancer does to people and after a while there gone. like there bodys still on earth but anything else is gone.. and I screamed at him!
I was like WHAT! I was like noo even I cant stand Cole but never EVER would I wish death on anyone!! Expecially not cancer.." and he was like oo oo i didnt mean it like that.. I was you still said it! what is wrong with you.. have you seen what cancer does to people! and my Uncle passed away November 4th of last year and not a day goes by i dont think of him.. I love him and he lived 9 months after finding out he had cancer but maybe 6 months tops into it he was gone.. and i told him this.he was like ughh oo.. ee..
And i remember in the last question i said all my guy friends were just friends but I knew I did have feelings about Nathen.. and I never expected this from him he didnt know.. about my Uncle but he still said it..
Well i started crying and actually ran to the ISS room to talk to Steven
Mrs Berry it was cool aslong as we were quite. Well I hugged him.. and basicly cried on his shoulder.. I told him everything about me liking him and how he said it and Stevens attitude changed completely.. first he was like ohh come here.. are you okay like completely friend.. next minete he stil cared but i could tell i hurt his feelings. And now im not sure about anything like does Steven like me??? I love Steven as a brother as a best friend as someone i can count on.. not a boyfriend. Well i had to leave and as I hugged Steven he was stiff..
I had PE afterwards and I have that class with Nathen and he just looked at me..
I dont want to be the person who cries alot of but at the moment that doesnt madder.. im gunna lose two of my good friends over something thats Nathens fault.. but i like Nathen i think because when he sai it i wanted to claw at him..
Explain to me why im feeling like ahhhhhhhhh
Stevens my friend, if i knew he liked me never would i explain it in such a good detail, i thought he loved me as a sister.. not girlfriend Ive never look at Steven in that way but this whole week has sucked NOW i feel acward around my friends because what if they like me, and i hurt there feelings??? I love them and would never wanna see any of them hurt. But Steven wont return phone calls, ive asked about him but everyones like no hes fune BLAHH BLAHH when i know there lieing they didnt see him face.. i shouldve listened to people when they said it was a possibilty that he liked me, but like thgey dont know him,but i just feel akward around the guys.. what if there loking down my shirt (something ive never worried about) just dumb things jeez im paranoid..
Please help again..=D..=\
I don't really know what to say to this because..
you cant control how you feel or what you cry over. so don't worry about that, it's just your emotions.
It's not entirely Nathans fault, so you shouldn't of yelled at him that bad, because maybe he forgot or didn't think anyone could hear him. But, that still isn't nice of him to wish about someone.
Steven probably does like you, explain to him that you're sorry, and that you only like him as a brother, be gentle. And there's nothing I can tell you to do to make him return your calls because he's got to do that on his own time.
About you feeling awkward that guys are looking down your shirt. Guys look down girls shirt's constantly, even if they don't like the girl "It's still boobies," as most of my guy friends say. It's like us girls, if there's a sale in your favorite store, you're going to go in and look around, aren't you. Same consept lol.
I think I covered everything, if not just repost it in a new question.
Hipe I helped !
(Rating: 5) thank u soooo much, and i love ur advice so much im going to be asking u about a stray cat. Im probably bothering the heck out've u but its super important please...