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Hi, umm Im the girl you answered a question about me having a lot of guys friends and how one of them stuck up for me whne Nick called me butch.. well hasn't even been a week and people are driving me batty.
ahh Stevens still in ISS... and so's Nick.
Well yesturday.. we had cooking and I got stuck wiht becky.. thank good DJ,JJ, and Nathen. Well im friends with Nathen.. and JJ was making jokes about how its a womens job to cook and all this sexist crap.. well then Cole joined and Nathen already hated this kid so they got in a talking arguement and as Nathen walked away he like said to me under his breath..
"Err I wished he'd die.. of cancer."
Well I tweaked on him because ive senn what cancer does to people and after a while there gone. like there bodys still on earth but anything else is gone.. and I screamed at him!
I was like WHAT! I was like noo even I cant stand Cole but never EVER would I wish death on anyone!! Expecially not cancer.." and he was like oo oo i didnt mean it like that.. I was you still said it! what is wrong with you.. have you seen what cancer does to people! and my Uncle passed away November 4th of last year and not a day goes by i dont think of him.. I love him and he lived 9 months after finding out he had cancer but maybe 6 months tops into it he was gone.. and i told him this.he was like ughh oo.. ee..
And i remember in the last question i said all my guy friends were just friends but I knew I did have feelings about Nathen.. and I never expected this from him he didnt know.. about my Uncle but he still said it..
Well i started crying and actually ran to the ISS room to talk to Steven
Mrs Berry it was cool aslong as we were quite. Well I hugged him.. and basicly cried on his shoulder.. I told him everything about me liking him and how he said it and Stevens attitude changed completely.. first he was like ohh come here.. are you okay like completely friend.. next minete he stil cared but i could tell i hurt his feelings. And now im not sure about anything like does Steven like me??? I love Steven as a brother as a best friend as someone i can count on.. not a boyfriend. Well i had to leave and as I hugged Steven he was stiff..
I had PE afterwards and I have that class with Nathen and he just looked at me..
I dont want to be the person who cries alot of but at the moment that doesnt madder.. im gunna lose two of my good friends over something thats Nathens fault.. but i like Nathen i think because when he sai it i wanted to claw at him..
Explain to me why im feeling like ahhhhhhhhh
Stevens my friend, if i knew he liked me never would i explain it in such a good detail, i thought he loved me as a sister.. not girlfriend Ive never look at Steven in that way but this whole week has sucked NOW i feel acward around my friends because what if they like me, and i hurt there feelings??? I love them and would never wanna see any of them hurt. But Steven wont return phone calls, ive asked about him but everyones like no hes fune BLAHH BLAHH when i know there lieing they didnt see him face.. i shouldve listened to people when they said it was a possibilty that he liked me, but like thgey dont know him,but i just feel akward around the guys.. what if there loking down my shirt (something ive never worried about) just dumb things jeez im paranoid..
Please help again..=D..=\
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I don't really know what to say to this because..
you cant control how you feel or what you cry over. so don't worry about that, it's just your emotions.
It's not entirely Nathans fault, so you shouldn't of yelled at him that bad, because maybe he forgot or didn't think anyone could hear him. But, that still isn't nice of him to wish about someone.
Steven probably does like you, explain to him that you're sorry, and that you only like him as a brother, be gentle. And there's nothing I can tell you to do to make him return your calls because he's got to do that on his own time.
About you feeling awkward that guys are looking down your shirt. Guys look down girls shirt's constantly, even if they don't like the girl "It's still boobies," as most of my guy friends say. It's like us girls, if there's a sale in your favorite store, you're going to go in and look around, aren't you. Same consept lol.
I think I covered everything, if not just repost it in a new question.
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It seems as though Steven will not come out and admit that his feelings were hurt for some reason. My personal opinion says he likes you. You should really sit him down and talk to him about it. Explain where you stand with him (how you said you like him as a brother...not a bf...) and say you are sorry if his feelings got hurt.
I'm sure Nathen wasn't thinking when he made the comment about cancer. People don't think. It's like when people say..."oh, that's gay..." and there might be a homosexual man standing around, or whatever. People say things and don't think about what it actually means. So I don't think he meant it that way. But still, it's good that you made him know that he should think next time, because people really do go through Cancer, and it is nothing to wish upon anyone. I do think Nathen likes you, I also think you need to have a conversation with him about this too, though it may be hard, it's the only thing you can do to clear things up, and not walk around to awkward and confused all the time! That's the only way you will know things for sure.
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Well, I think Steven likes you. But I'm not a guy, and you might want a guy's opinion. If so, I'd recommend Jack:
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Anyways, you seem really nervous to be around guys now. Don't be! They're just friends, you know it, they know it, it's fine. You're just gonig to make it awkward by seeming nervous around them, and then they'll get nervous and it might be a huge mess =/
To fix things with Steven, I'd talk to him, face to face, and apologize. Tell him you're sorry if you hurt his feelings, and you didn't realize he might like you as more than a friend. If you don't like him that way, just tell him nicely something like, "I love you like a brother, and our friendship means too much, I don't want to0 mess it up. So let's just stay friends."
Hope this helps!
-Laura. (15-f)
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