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15/f
alright so my boyfriend and i have bee going out for over a year, anyways we've thought about having sex awhile. i love him and he loves me so dont give me you're too young crap. we were both virgins till today. haha anyways he went inside my vag, and it hurt ALOT. he stuck it in more then half way but not fully, then took it out. the condem had a bit of blood at the tip, but not alot. now, does that mean my cherry popped fully?, or whatt is there suppose to be alot of blood? thankss for readingg :)

I don't think it did. The bleeding is probably the result of a little tearing.

I hate referring to bleeding from having sex for the first time as a cherry popping. It's very misleading. Nothing in you actually pops. There's not a bubble of blood that bursts. Some people bleed a lot their first time from stretching and tearing. That's all it is. Why people refer to it as a cherry popping is beyond me. If he didn't go inside of you fully, there's probably still some stretching out to do. The amount of bleeding varies from person to person. If you use tampons or masturbate, or even ride horses or a bike, your vaginal walls could be more stretched out than other virgins and make it so that you won't bleed as much as them your first time. It also depends on how big the guy is.

I hope that clears some things up. Good luck with this guy and remember to use protection every time! :)

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(Rating: 5) alright, thanks for clarifying things. lol :)
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