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I have a bad probelem. Ok. so I have been datting this boy for almost 9 months. And three days ago I have started talking to this new guy. he used to be really mean in school but now he is all sweet. and he told me that my hair is beautiful and he give's out a lot of complements. and he is so sweet and told me changed. and we talked on the phone last night tell 4:00 in the morning. and talked about people in our school who we would make out with. and I aksed him this girl and me and he said me. so.. I like this guy a lot but yet I love my boyfriend.I just kinda want a change beucase I have been with this kid for 9 months! and I dont know what to do. Im scared if me and the new guy go out and then he will dump me and I will miss my old boyfriend. I just really dont know what to do. Please help me !

Thankks a lot
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If you really loved your boyfriend then you wouldn't be tired of him and "looking for a change". If you really want to be with this other guy and give a relationship a shot then go ahead, but think things over first. Think about your relationship with your boyfriend and your true feelings for him.

If you really think you'll miss him then maybe you shouldn't break up with him. Is what you have for this other guy only a crush? (Is he worth jeopardizing your relationship with your boyfriend?) If that's the case then I wouldn't suggest breaking up with your boyfriend. Think about who you want to be with more, and follow your heart.

::Jasmine::

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