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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.
I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.
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16/f and he is 18
so my ex boyfriend recently broke up with the girl he went out with before and after me. during the time of dating her he asked all sorts of rude questions, but now that they are over all he wants to do is hang out with me. Keep in mind i havent seen this boy in abouts 5 months, its just strange. I completely lost all my feelings for him (at least i think) He was what i considered my first love ( lost my virginity to him) I want to see him again, but i have a feeling my emotions will resurface for him. Im not afraid of hooking up or anything its just the whole emotions aspect, plus my parents completely hate him now. Do you think i should even bother wasting my time on him, because i would love to maintain a friendship (although i highly doubt he wants that) What do you think?
I'm not sure I fully understood the situation because you said you don't think he wants a friendship but you think all he is after is a hook up and nothing else? :/ Sorry, just got me confused a little.
It sounds to me like a classic case of being on the rebound but I'm not really sure as it might not be the case. I only say so though because after 5 months of not talking all of a sudden he's back and wants to hang out with you and such but he doesn't want a friendship. If he's not after friendship then all I can imagine it might be is a possible relationship or he's just looking for a rebound.
I think, either way, the choice really is yours to make. It all really comes down to what it is YOU want. If you want a friendship then you'd have to make it clear that's all your after. If you're okay with just being a rebound then fair enough but as you said yourself then there is always the risk of getting emotionally involved. Lastly there is the possibility hemay want to just get to know you again in the hopes you can both start over in which case again it all comes down to you getting emotionally involved as well as having to deal with your parents who hate him. Either way it's really your choice to make on what you want to do but either way, good luck. :]
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