♥[?]♥ Ok well my dog Adrian died and its really hard for me and i keep thinking about her....And i WONT ever forget her though....And i like loved her and i still do and shes buried in the backyard so i can see her...And it just makes it harder....Please Help...
She sounds very important to you, so there simply isn't any way that you ever Could forget about her, I understand. The key is to allow yourself some time to grieve. A tragic thing has just happened, and crying is a suitable reaction. Unfortunately, you can not grieve forever. You must accept matters and find a way of adjusting. A dog is just as much a member of the family as everybody else. Things will be different, but you can manage by hanging onto fond memories. It might be devastating, but all good things must come to an end.
http://www.belairemanor.com/home/rainbow2.html
There is a link you might be interested in checking out. It's a very sad video, and it will probably make you cry. I think a way for you to feel better about this is to have some sort of an understanding about what could have possibly happened to Adrian. You may be able to 'see' her in the backyard, but only in body, not in spirit. This will take a little bit of belief on your part, but it is a beautiful story. The point of the video is that even though she might not be visible to your eye... that doesn't make Adrian any less alive in your heart.
Just remember that true friendship bears zero limitations. (=
