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Hi, this is the same girl who asked you about the "He won't be able to turn you down" comment.
This is what I didn't mention: The other guy in the car, C (lol) who is also 18...
Well here's the whole story (it's very long and may be confusing).
Both A and C are friends with my brother.
That day A and C were hanging out. My brother was at work. C called me, but I didn't hear the phone. My brother got off work 2 hours later. A called my brother and wanted to hang out. My brother was doing some stuff on the computer. Then A called him again and said that he and C were coming to pick up my brother.
They came; my brother left with them.
My brother then called and asked if I wanted to come and drive around with them. I said, "Sure."
They came and picked me up.
Well C says, "We were already [15 minutes away] but then me and A asked your brother where you were, and he said that you didn't come because you weren't invited, But we thought you would ocme anyways so that's why we didn't invite you. So we came all the way here just to pick you up."
Anyways, I apologized for not calling him back. They said they were gonna see if I wanted to hang out (earlier).
So, from that I inferred that they wanted me to come; that's why they picked up my brother.
Well, C acts like he likes me (well he makes it obvious he does, flirting and stuff...but I think that he still misses his ex-girlfriend.)
It was his idea for the dare, and he was also trying to persuade me, even though he "likes" me or whatever.
A's reaction to the dare was laughing and saying, "Yeah, do it!"
Anyways, since there's more information, can you give me opinion again? Lol.
Again, you can probably tell that I want you to say that A likes me (because C likes me but wanted me to do the dare anyways). But please give me your honest opinion again.
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My opinion really hasn't changed. I think if "A" knows that "C" likes you, chances are that since they're friends, "A" was trying to help "C" out by agreeing that they should go back and pick you up. Do you like "C"? I know you like "A," but "C" seems to be the guy you're going to have the most luck with. If you're interested, write back and give me more info about the guys. Maybe I could help you out a little bit more.
Also, are you almost 16? I know you probably don't want to hear this, but maybe you should focus your attention on guys your own age. Guys who are older are always far more intriguing, but they're also a much greater risk. It's a lot easier to get hurt by a guy that's older than you than by a guy your own age. By being with guys your own age, you'll have more things in common and you're likely to have more of the same goals.
I've known a lot of young girls who wound up with broken hearts because they fell for an older guy. He might want to go to college while you're still in HS. He might be out in the work field while you're just starting to have fun at college. He might meet someone else whose life is a little more similar to his. There's greater potential for lot to go wrong. So I would advise you to consider the 15/16 year old boy you're probably not that interested in right now. He'll make the better BF.
You seem so sweet and so eager and hopeful. You have a lot of qualities that are truly wonderful and I know one day you're going to meet someone who will see all of those things and love you for it. I don't think it'll be "A," but who knows, maybe it will be. Either way, I hope you find happiness and I hope you keep in touch because I'd love to help if I can and I'd love to know how things progress for you. Good luck and take care!
PS: Sorry for this response being so late. I got sick with a nasty cold, but I'm getting better now. Please feel free to get in contact with me if you need any further assistance. Good luck :)
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