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My name is Carrie, and I just recently turned 25. I've been told that I give excellent advice, so I created this column last year with the intention of helping as many people as possible. Although I do believe I succeeded, I ultimately turned my back on this column when I discovered just how cruel and thankless some people can be. Almost one year later a lot has changed. I've gained a whole new perspective on life and the world around me. I'm much more positive, sympathetic, and willing to listen when people truly need help. So now I've decided to come back and focus my attention on the individuals who are truly in need of advice.
ADVICE:
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This is from: my reply and a lil lost
username: lost_3v3rytim3
well you wanted to know how things are going with me right? Well nothing much, we still hang out with each other with our friends. We have a good time and I’m glad we are still friends.
But there are times I get annoyed by her odd body language to me that I wish she stops (sometimes)
what happen was that I was sitting on the floor with my back to the wall. She was sitting across from me reading a book as I was talking to my friend. Then all of sudden she moved herself to me and lean her body on me as she read her book.
I was starting to get annoyed and hot, (because it was a hot day) I told her to get off of me and she said "no". I ask her nicely and said "it is too hot". She sighed and said "fine you big baby".
Well I really didn’t care at the moment because I like it but I couldn’t stand it that how she has to play with my mind like that.
She try to do it again as she said to me that she wanted to lean on me because the wall was too hard.
I told her to go ahead but she didn’t.
I don’t know what she wants from me but I just want to know, dose she secretly like me back too?
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It sounds like she enjoys getting a reaction from you. Now that she knows you're interested in her, she has a little power over you that she can use to her advantage. That doesn't mean she doesn't truly like you, but it doesn't mean she does either. The two of you should have an honest talk to set things straight so you know once and for all where she stands. You don't deserve being toyed with and having all of these questions about her intentions.
I advised you before to stay friends with her, but her behavior isn't very friendly. She doesn't seem to be very considerate of your feelings, which you're trying to deal with like an adult. Friendship is a two way street, and she needs to adjust the way she's handling things. So far you've been very open and honest with her, but it seems like she's still playing games. It's about time she starts being real with you or maybe you should move on.
PS: Sorry for this response being so late. I got sick with a nasty cold, but I'm getting better now. Please feel free to get in contact with me if you need any further assistance. Good luck :)
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your advice is great and i dont mind it was late. i had bussy week.
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