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my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, but i know he talks to other girls online. recently, i went on his myspace, he said i could, and read some of his messages. one from his ex that bothered me said

"hey. i wanted to continue our conversation. what where you saying when you said you still like me but like her more?"

another one was from a girl that i have no clue in heaven she is and it was this long love letter saying how she could never get over him and "that night back in october was amazing." we were going out i october.

what should i think? the thing is, his ex lives across the country from us, but i'm still worried. and the other girl lives in our city. what should i think or do about this?

Talk to him about it, he obviously let you on his myspace, and he knew you were going to read his messages, but he left them so they must not be a big deal.

There's probably so many explainations for them --

- Of course he could still like his ex. People often like more than one person at a time, but like he says he likes her, I'm guessing you, more. So there's nothing to worry about, atleast he told her that, instead of him just telling her he still liked her.

- With the girl who said it was an amazing night in October. You don't know what they did so you shouldn't assume. They might have or might not have done something sexual. " An amazing night, " doesn't always mean they did other things, they could have talked, or hungout and had a lot of fun.

Just talk to him about it, let him know you still trust him, but you want to know what the deal is. I think its your safe bet. But DO NOT jump to conclusions, guys hate that as much as we do, so give them the benefit of the doubt. So let him explain so you can get all the facts and then decide what you want to do.

Hope I helped ?

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(Rating: 5) thanks SO much hun
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